Positive(+) <-> Negative(-)

In an atom, the protons(+) in neutron always attract its surrounding electrons(-). In short, positive and negative always attract each other. In addition, they always in neutral state. That also govern the fact of life :

1. Every positive thing always has at least a negative in it.
2. Every negative thing always has at least a positive in it.
3. The amount of positive and negative always equal to each other hence give raise a neutral thing.

Again, because as explained above, positive and negative always exist and happen together.

For instance, say something that is very negative like having diseases like cancer, acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), kidney failure and etc. Yes it's a very bad thing, but without it there will not exist positive thing like new medical technology such as chemotherapy for cancer, dialysis for kidney failure or kidney transplant that help people to live a little bit longer. These new technologies in turn give the basic for developing the next new and even better technology for other diseases. Without AIDS, people might have even more frequent sex with different partners which give even more freedoms that already occur today. In short, if there is not negative thing, there will not be any improvement in the universe. Although we see that diseases give more negative rather than positive, if we list all negative and positive things of having diseases then add and subtract each other, they will always give a neutral value in the end.

Say something that is very positive like government loves to improve their country and people love to live in sophisticated and modern city with lots of facilities, entertainment, infrastructure and etc. That is a very nice thing, but developed countries are causing more problems to what is occurring today Global Climate Change, because of their large amount of carbon emissions from fossil burning fuels, industrialization (etc), compare to developing countries. Although we see that having a developed country gives more positive rather than negative, if we list all positive and negative thing having a developed country then add and subtract each other, they will always gives a neutral value in the end. Because developed and developing countries are just in different neutral states.

These might not be the best example, but that is not the matter, the matter is only you have to understand those three rules above.

Whether you believe in God or not ! But to make it easy let's say you believe in God. God (in general, not a particular religion, not even my own religion, Kong Fu Tzu) creates everything in the universe, exclude nothing in the universe. Hence, every positive and negative thing too. And HE has the powerful reason for it which only explained a little bit above. As a result, it makes our world to have a very random, spontaneous environment, which is a very good thing actually.

Everything has a reason, not matter negative or positive. Because, they always together, never happen exclusively. Importantly, although it seems that one favors more than the other, they always have an equal amount (neutral). God's power.

So think about heterosexual and homosexual as above. That is the point that I want to deliver. Thank you.

Repeal 377A law in Singapore

377A states that :

Any male person who, in public or private, commits, or abets the commission of, or procures or attempts to procure the commission by any male person of, any act of gross indecency with another male person, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 2 years.

Advise people to be who they are...

"When you are telling the homosexual that what he is doing is wrong, you might want to remember that many of them have tried to quit and even cried out to God for it to be taken away but the attraction remains much to their sadness and depression because they feel they can't conform to what they feel we expect them to do." from Doublebug1

Homosexual for the heterosexual

The right matter or the wrong matter, the sweet one or the disgusting one or anything we human being can think of it. Heterosexual, you got to be grateful that you are not born to be gay, but things might just be temporary. Think of how those gay or lesbian people exist, do they just drop from the heaven or out from the hell ?! They exist because of their two heterosexual parents who brought them to this world. Of course I don't meant that the heterosexual parents are the cause of homosexuality for the child. But you can see how is the point of connection between the heterosexual and the homosexual. A gay man with a gay man being together does not reproduce another gay son, a lesbian woman and a lesbian woman being together does not reproduce another lesbian daughter, but it seems they are more and more of them today. Not matter you are man or woman, you going to be the father or mother of a child. There is a possibility for you as well for having a gay son or lesbian daughter. You can do influence your child but, we can bring a horse to a lake but we can't make the horse to drink the water. I know you would deny and argue a lot with me, because it's a fact that hurt. You hate them is actually not because they are homosexual but it's because you are not homosexual, because we are human being, we human being would never understand what others have felt until we ourselves have felt what others have felt. Use your heart to compare with their heart. The feelings of you as a heterosexual man loving a woman you loved has not any difference at all with them loving each other. Because I can guarantee you that if you are reincarnated once again and as gay or lesbian, you would never deny or angry with what I have written, instead you will be more than just believe what I have said, but you would love what I have writtent. Thank you.

Closet Immunity

"Talking about lesbian, just now when I was walking on the street with our friends we saw a gay couple you know,Oh my god, such a disgusting"

Those quotes are said by one of my house mates to another of my house mates and that triggered me to write this post, it sounds sarcastic to gay people, but I don't get disappointed and not too sad about it. It is because I have the immune to it already, when people quote such words, to me it does not hurt me much. Forgot to tell you that my housemate still don't know that I am gay. I have the immunity that most people (heterosexual) does not have, I called it as Closet Immunity, that has really make me a stronger person. These are the Closet Immunity frequently asked question (FAQ) :
What is Closet Immunity ?
Closet Immunity is the virtual immunity or name-convention named by ME, that denotes a homosexual person that use it to handle any difficulties in their life while living in closet.

How to get Closet Immunity ?
You will get the immunity to measles when you get the measles, so you only can get the Closet Immunity when you are homosexual and faced the many-difficulty that related to homosexuality.

What are the advantages of Closet Immunity ?
Closet Immunity makes the homosexual people become a stronger person, as so many difficulties they faced as being homosexual in closet. Such as, friends' insults, social nonacceptance, discrimination.

What are the disadvantages of Closet Immunity ?
Nothing is perfect in this world, there is always at least one disadvantage to something, however I have not discover any disadvantages yet for Closet Immunity.

What is the difference with others that do not have Closet Immunity ?
If there are two people, one that have Closet Immunity and the other does not, when they face equal weight of difficulty such as discrimination. It will cause much more wounds on the person that does not have Closet Immunity. On the other person, it will boost the Closet Immune System to produce even more Closet Immunity, hence the person will be even more resistance to such difficulty.

Homophobia

Gay and God

God, why ? After years didn’t see my mother worshiping her Confucius god, my belief on the religion has fade a way a bit but turns to be mixed with many beliefs from many religions, mainly Confucius, Buddhist, Islam, Christianity and Hindu. But there is only one God to me.

God hates fag, god hates homosexual, god only see the marriage of a woman and a man

Those are the anti-homosexual demonstration banner in United States that I just watched in Youtube, half an hour ago. Remember ? I have god in my heart. Though I don’t know whether my god is Jesus or Buddha or Allah, I believe that god is everything. Everything is created by Him including the love that is tender and does not know genders excluding nothing. Every one of His creations always has a reason for that one creation, and the reason always been good for that one creation. If He really hates gay, lesbian, homosexual and bisexual then I will not be in this world writing these words for you to understand homosexuality.

Because I believe He will not create something that He does not wanted to have or without a reason. After watching Indonesian TV Series called Hikmah the third season, I notice that all these have a reason from Him and it has also Hikmah for me. I believe He loves my feeling of gay love which is honest and pure. When He even allow the every kinds of love why we as the lowest-level mankind in the world forbid what he has created ?

Gay and Evolution

Gay is the attraction to the same sex, in short. Evolution is something that evolves from something through millions and millions of years ago. I don't believe evolution though, if there is evolution then there will be not creation. In addition, I don't believe my great great until...millions of greats then reach the word grandfather is an ape. What is the relation between gay and evolution then ? Well, I am not talking about that gay is the result of evolution. Although I don't believe in evolution, I believe things will happen like evolution. Today, when you tell a straight guy you are gay guy, they will probably answer "What you just said ? You are gay ? Oh my god. You don't love girls ? So you love boys ? That is so disgusting." and more phrases that might hurt you. Millions and millions of years later, you tell a straight guy that you are gay, they will probably answer "Wow that is great, I wish I am gay too", not to exaggerate, but who knows. You might think this is not possible, I would say all things are possible it is just the matter of how big or small. Even there is a possibility that I can fly, but the possibility might just like 0.000000 until infinity of zero then reach 1, out of 1, but it still has the possibility. We human being tends to get used and bored to something when something kept repeated. Today, when they(heterosexual) heard the word "gay", it could be something that is very very weird(or whatever) to them. But after millions and millions of years, it will be nothing already.

This is my story analogy. Maybe hundreds of thousand years ago, people does not eat any flesh like chicken, goat, pig, beef but they eat only vegetables like vegetarian, but one day a man discretely try to feel the flesh of chicken and "emm..." he feel the taste like MC Donald's. However, their community has an unique vegetarian smells which are same to each other and unfortunately the man who eat the chicken flesh does not have Colgate to brush his teeth and soon his criminal of killing and eating chicken was revealed. By then, the rest of the community considered him as a cannibal(human that eat human), though only chicken he ate, he then get severe torture and torture until he is dead and not been buried. But this thing actually inspire the other, there is other who tried it discretely too and told his closest friend the secret and one by one soon it becomes not a criminal anymore but become known as a must-have food for higher protein supplemental, soon established the MC Donald's and KFC like today. In short, weird things are just a matter of time, it will not weird anymore as times goes by for homosexuality although I know that people right now feel these will never be not weird for them.

Why hate Gay ? Because...because...because...

Why does most heterosexual people hate gay or lesbian or whatever ? I thought, it is not because they (homosexual) are gay but it is because they(heterosexual) are not gay. Because we human being will never understand what others have felt until only if we ourselves have felt what others had felt. Almost everyday we heard of car bombing in Baghdad, blast in Iraq parliament, at least 78 was killed in the traditional market when a suicide bomb blasted. Do you feel sad about it ? Maybe yes, but not as much as what the people there that actually experienced it. For most of us, we just flip to the next page of newspaper and get rid away of the main page that showed the bombing, because it is just like a fiction movie for us. In fact, it is much much more painful than we can ever thought of. Well it is because we are human being, we would never think what other is thinking. There is a saying in my mother of tongue, Hokkian, it is called "Jiong Sim Pi Sim", if I translate directly it means "use heart compare heart", if I elaborate further it means use your heart to feel what other's heart is feeling. I believe I will be anti gay too if I am straight, it is because I don't understand how is the feeling of gay. But I am gay, I understand it 99%. A gay guy loves a gay man, a straight guy loves a straight woman. I mean, the love of a gay guy to the gay man is not even a damn bit difference at all with a straight guy loves a straight woman. Their loves are the same, there is not two different kinds of love, if you think there is, that means you must make more research on the meaning of love. A hint, love is the unable-to-be-defined-feeling of organisms to organisms. If you say these two sentences, "gay man loves man", "Straight man loves woman", and immediately think of love and if it resulted 2 different kinds of loves to you then you already mixed up the sex with love, because there is only one kind of love. I will stop here, it needs more than a thousand words to describe it but you please think about it.

盛夏光年 - Eternal Summer English subtitle

Eternal Summer - I was touched by this movie, so I want everyone who watched this movie to be touched like me, by better understanding of their conversation. As there is not English subtitle yet for this movie. I will translate their conversation base on the Youtube video uploaded by dell224. However, both of my English and Mandarin are not really pro, so forgive me if there is any mistake. It is an opportunity for me as well to improve further on both languages.
I have made the first 6 part of movie, tell me if you like it in my blog comment, if you like then I will know that I am not wasting my time doing this.

Instruction :
1. Visit one part of the Eternal Summer movie below
Part 1 - http://youtube.com/watch?v=gn7Gy0vkNSs
Part 2 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cPbKWGPpXeY
Part 3 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-w4grPwf4U
Part 4 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJ1RGbUyoEo
part 5 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Sgm3d1Zaek
part 6 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UV0xofW5aY
2. Click on the start now link below according to part movie.
3. The time will count down from 5th seconds until 0
4. Standby your cursor at the play button in the Youtube player
5. When the count down reach 0 (Zero) second, immediately press play button in Youtbe.
6. Enjoy the subtitle, if you feel this is a help for you, then share with others who might need it. You can leave a comment to improve my work.



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