Why hate Gay ? Because...because...because...

Why does most heterosexual people hate gay or lesbian or whatever ? I thought, it is not because they (homosexual) are gay but it is because they(heterosexual) are not gay. Because we human being will never understand what others have felt until only if we ourselves have felt what others had felt. Almost everyday we heard of car bombing in Baghdad, blast in Iraq parliament, at least 78 was killed in the traditional market when a suicide bomb blasted. Do you feel sad about it ? Maybe yes, but not as much as what the people there that actually experienced it. For most of us, we just flip to the next page of newspaper and get rid away of the main page that showed the bombing, because it is just like a fiction movie for us. In fact, it is much much more painful than we can ever thought of. Well it is because we are human being, we would never think what other is thinking. There is a saying in my mother of tongue, Hokkian, it is called "Jiong Sim Pi Sim", if I translate directly it means "use heart compare heart", if I elaborate further it means use your heart to feel what other's heart is feeling. I believe I will be anti gay too if I am straight, it is because I don't understand how is the feeling of gay. But I am gay, I understand it 99%. A gay guy loves a gay man, a straight guy loves a straight woman. I mean, the love of a gay guy to the gay man is not even a damn bit difference at all with a straight guy loves a straight woman. Their loves are the same, there is not two different kinds of love, if you think there is, that means you must make more research on the meaning of love. A hint, love is the unable-to-be-defined-feeling of organisms to organisms. If you say these two sentences, "gay man loves man", "Straight man loves woman", and immediately think of love and if it resulted 2 different kinds of loves to you then you already mixed up the sex with love, because there is only one kind of love. I will stop here, it needs more than a thousand words to describe it but you please think about it.